By Ezra Caber

As the holiday season approaches, people everywhere are preparing for a time of celebration. Whether it’s Christmas, Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa, these traditions bring a common theme to the forefront: togetherness.

Christmas is celebrated by many as a time for family, gratitude, and generosity. Traditions often include exchanging gifts, decorating trees, sharing meals, and sometimes community activities such as caroling. For some, caroling is a way to spread joy and contribute to charitable causes, creating a sense of unity and goodwill. 

Hanukkah, celebrated by Jewish families, commemorates the rededication of the Second Temple of Jerusalem. This holiday is filled with family traditions like playing dreidel, a spinning top game that symbolizes the miracle of Hanukkah. Families may also light the menorah, enjoy special foods, and exchange gifts, creating cherished moments of connection. 

Kwanzaa, celebrated from December 26 to January 1, is an African American holiday honoring African harvest traditions and cultural heritage. Rooted in seven principles known as Nguzo Saba, Kwanzaa emphasizes values like unity, self-determination, and creativity. One meaningful tradition is the sharing of the Kikombe Cha Umoja, or unity cup, symbolizing the bonds between family and community. 

Despite their differences, these holidays all highlight the importance of shared experiences and enduring traditions. They remind us of the value of family, friends, and community, especially during a season often marked by reflection and gratitude.   

This sense of connection is not unique to December’s celebrations. As Dan Senor and Saul Singer note in their book “The Genius of Israel: The Surprising Resilience of a Divided Nation in a Turbulent World,” rituals like Shabbat help people feel a sense of belonging. They write,  “Indeed, family alone is not enough—we also need friends and community to help give us a sense of belonging. For many, these other circles of connection become “like family.”

Whether lighting a candle, sharing a meal, or simply coming together, the spirit of the season is a reminder that unity and connection are what truly make holidays special.